Why I Usually Bring My B Game

Why I usually Bring My B GameWhy I Usually Bring My B Game

There is no question that in order to speed the path to financial independence, one should front-load the sacrifice.  In other words, when you are young, you should approach most ventures bringing your A game.  New jobs, business opportunities, and side hustles should be attacked and devoured.  There is no room to be anything less than utterly impressive.  The reason is simple.  These are the foundational years in which your wealth will be built.  Something funny happens, however, after you reach financial independence.  You realize quickly that twenty percent of the effort will get you eighty percent of the way to your goal.  In order to get that last surge of greatness, supreme effort is required.  While it is wise to put forth such effort early in your career, once you reach financial independence, the returns aren’t as great.  This is precisely why I usually bring my B game.

There is just less impetus to be a stellar performer anymore.

Now this is not to say that I don’t take pride in my various investments and work products.  I have just chosen to forego the extra work and energy involved to deliver that last twenty percent.

And for the most part, it has worked out splendidly.

Doctoring

While I will always give my patients my very best, I usually bring my B game to building my medical practice.  This is in stark contrast to the beginning of my career.  Back then, I would do whatever it took to attract more patients, woo specialists, and introduce myself to the community.

As a financially independent physician, I see no reason to chase business anymore.  I no longer get bent out of shape about whether the local nursing home or hospital will be happy with me.  If they don’t like my way of doing things, they can work with someone else.

When you stop being so hungry, you often realize your B game is good enough.

Investing

I usually bring my B game to investing.  By choosing the most simple, broad-based, indexed strategy, I might be giving up efficiencies.  Maybe if I became a true student of the market I could eek out a few extra percentage points and then accrue even more!

Yet, year after year, I accept lousy returns (sarcasm here) matching the market.  I have no interest in spending the extra hours every week learning about the newest, latest, or greatest!

And it’s not just asset allocation, I have been lazy and falling behind on my Roth conversions.  I sometimes forget to rebalance!  I can go weeks without signing into my Vanguard account.

For me, however, perfect is the enemy of good.

Real Estate

I used to get so anxious about making sure our properties ran efficiently.  If a tenant called with a minor complaint, I was at the unit within hours to investigate.  I was especially concerned with vacancies.  In the past, it would crush me to see a unit sit empty for a month.

Disability Do's and Don'tsNow, I usually bring my B game.  Sometimes instead of fixing an issue myself, I hire a handyman.  Other times, I allow my tenants to wrestle a few days with a minor inconvenience until I can get a handle on the situation.  If they decide I am a terrible landlord and don’t like my style, they are welcome to move out.  I will even let them out of a lease early if they are that unhappy.

I actually found, that with tenants, if you are too solicitous, they will become quite demanding.  Bringing the B game is the best path here.

My A Game

So the point here is that I usually bring my B game to all these money and career issues so that I have the energy to bring my A game to the important stuff.

  • Family: To be a good husband, father, child, and sibling.
  • Friends: To be available and support those who care about me.
  • Patient care: To be the best doctor I possibly can.
  • Health: To take care of this body that will hopefully last me a bunch more decades.
  • Writing:  To be engaged in an activity I truly love.

In Conclusion

For many years I brought my A game to my finances and career.  After becoming financially independent, I realized that I could do good enough with my B game.  Now I concentrate my energy and passion on those things that are most important to me.

How about you?  Do you ever bring your B game?  How will this change after financial independence? 

 

 

 

 

Doc G

A doctor who discovered the FI community but still struggling with RE.

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31 Responses

  1. Xrayvsn says:

    I am not quite where you are but I can sense am emotional and behavioral change for me as well as I approach the “I have already won the game” stage of life.

    It is such a different feeling and I think a great way to avoid burnout.

    Earlier (and this occurred even a few years ago) I would rationalize going out of my way and approving last minute studies/add ons that would push me past my normal leaving time (I’m an outpatient radiologist so it is as close to 830-5p job you can get as a physician) because I would increase my bottom line.

    Now that I’ve hit this stage I am no longer on the quest for the almighty dollar and only would extend my workday if it’s truly an emergency.

    As I continue to go up the ladder of financial independence I see myself setting everything on autopilot and really relax by dialing it in

  2. Love it. I started bringing my B Game to my W2 job years ago. As you said, many many years of bringing my A+ game to it burned me out. My investing is so lazy that I don’t even think I need a game 🙂

  3. The Pareto principle. Focus on the twenty percent that has he most impact on your life. It not only applies to fixing problems.

    • Doc G says:

      I never followed the Pareto Principle or the 80:20 rule till I was FI. Should I have started earlier?

  4. Gasem says:

    I just bring my game. The things I find intensely interesting I engage fully. I always fulfill my responsibilities. I do tune up my portfolio and I do plan and contingency plan. I’m not a bogelhead kind of guy and I eschew all the boilerplate and echo chamber. I just take what I need and leave the rest. I do it myself since doing it myself brings me into a more complete understanding of all the moving parts, things like tax planning, college planning, income taxes etc and I did it when I ran the business. Now that I’m done, I’m done. I’m more interested in expanding my being than my doing. I really like figuring out ways to understand my future needs and then funding those minimally and letting compounding round out the remainder. I was able to write off some college expense and open a Roth last year because I’m finally middle class. There is something to be said for rolling up the bell curve towards the mean. If that’s the “B game”, it sure does free up a lot of energy.

  5. Dr. McFrugal says:

    Totally agree that bringing your A game for the important stuff is key. Money comes and goes, but the important things in life can never be replaced and should never be taken for granted.

  6. Agree and well said. I follow the 80:20 rule too. Just not worth the brain infarcts for the last 20%. I used to hustle at my day job and try to optimize everything. Now, it if ain’t broke, I don’t mess with it.

  7. I bring my B game to blogging, but I “try” to bring my A game to commenting!

  8. Dr. MB says:

    Hello DocG,

    I have stopped bringing any A Game to anything in a very long time. It’s always been “good enough” in our household. I keep telling my kids whenever they stress about stuff that most things aren’t really such a big deal.

    Maybe it’s just my ole Canadian side showing.

  9. Wow Doc G, I didn’t know what to expect before I read your article, and got hooked in by the title lol. This was a very insightful read about how if we being our B game to other things, it would allow us to divert and focus more A game energy to things that really matter to us. Very good point!

    If we divert all A game energy to everything, we’d have less for those things that really matter.

    Hmmmm 🤔

    -Jack

  10. BusyMon says:

    You got the priorities right!

  11. VagabondMD says:

    Well said. I have been bringing the B game to work for about a year now, recovering from burnout, etc. Each case gets 100% attention and effort, and I work hard to do more than my share of the work. I am no longer working to expand my skill set (let the other guys do that), and I do not lose sleep when we lose a key referrer, when the Hospital suffers the crisis du jour, or when there are squabbles within the group.

    • Doc G says:

      I have actually found that when you care less, people want your skills more. Isn’t that funny?

  12. You make some excellent points, ones which have challenged me before as well. I recognize the wisdom and logic of the B-game approach, but it is an art which I have not yet mastered, even upon reaching FI.

    Call it the curse of the ISTJ personality. When I engage in something, it feels like all I have is an A-game. But as you so deftly pointed out, it’s difficult to bring your A-game to everything.

    In the words of Bilbo Baggins, many times I end up feeling like “too little butter, spread over too much bread”.

    • Doc G says:

      I think it’s ok to keep bringing your A game. Just make sure that you are doing it in regards to things you really care about!

  13. I like your B game. Actually, I think your B game for investing is actually an A game. I think Warren Buffet proved with his million dollar bet that it is very difficult to beat the return and efficiency of a low-cost index fund. Thanks for the post Doc.

  14. Dr Dave says:

    Nice take on Pareto!

    You could also argue to bring your A game to a new endeavor, when most will form their first impressions.

    Once those are set, good or bad, folks rarely chang them. No one likes to be wrong about someone or something.

  15. VagabondMD says:

    DocG, I have recently shared this article with several of my physician friends. All of really embraced the concept, one considers it “life changing”. My attorney wife has shared it with some of her colleagues, too.

    The B-game is gaining momentum among mid/late-career professionals!

    On another note, I really enjoyed your interview with the WCI. Well done!

  16. Bill Yount says:

    B students who take risks and leave their A Game effort on the table tend to be happier!:)

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