I Choose Work
I Choose Work
For most our lives, work is not a choice but rather a necessity. Even when financial independence is reached, the early retirement fallacy rears its ugly head. Whether employed or not, work is something that will follow us just short of the grave. We create goods and services whether we mean to or not. Often we trade money for these goods and services. I have often made these arguments as if the choice is rather passive. But the truth is that I choose work. Despite financial independence, despite the complaints of loathing the changes that have occurred with medicine and Medicare.
Why do I do it?
World Travel
I want to travel the world. I want to see as many countries and partake in as many adventures as possible. The idea of exploring foreign lands, climbing the highest peaks, and laying on a beach in the best tropical climates is awe-inspiring.
For awhile.
My experience with traveling is that it is fun for only so long. You can only see so many museums, climb so many mountains, and sun yourself in so many exotic locations. It gets tiring. After a few weeks of sleeping on uncomfortable beds and lugging my luggage through airports and trains stations, I am done.
One of the reasons that I choose work is that vacations are partially luxurious because they signify change. When everyday is a vacation it stops being special and different, and just becomes plain old, boring, life.
Relationships Stupid
Financial independence allows for an abundance of free time. What better way to savor the hours and minutes than to spend it with those you care about? No better time to concrete those long-term friendships, spend quality time with the kids, or get a little extra time with a mate.
Except that your friends all work and have no interest in spending the hours on a Monday morning in a coffee shop. The kids are too busy with school, or friends, or whatever activity fills their time. What teenager wants to hang out with their parents anyway?
And your significant other may want to spend every moment with you, or they might be like every other human being and have their own hobbies and interests. They may even still work.
I choose work partially because you can’t spend every moment deeply engaged in human bridge building.
The Thrill of Chill
How many dream of retirement and envision sleeping late each morning, channel surfing on the couch, and endless leisure? The thrill of chill is especially exciting to those in high stress jobs that leave us on edge.
Even a staycation sounds better than a grueling day in a relentless W2.
Until it doesn’t
The only thing worse than being overworked is dying of boredom. Even those who crave financial independence to the maximum need a purpose in life. Often that purpose goes farther than family, friends, and experiences.
I choose work because being a doctor brings it’s own sense of purpose and identity. Maybe other jobs don’t carry as much weight in this manner, but even the daily routine of showing up each morning is a cause unto itself. It creates a reason to wake up, take a shower, and brew the coffee.
It gives you a destination to start each day.
In Conclusion
Not everybody loves work. in fact, a great many are trying to escape it. But I choose work because it is a nice counterbalance to all those other important things like travel, relationship building, and chilling. As my finances get more and more certain, I have the luxury of downsizing my job to exactly what I want it to be.
I suspect that for most, a little bit of work is good for the soul.
Once again you’ve nailed it. Traveling and downtime are fun because it’s a change of pace – less fun when it’s 24/7.
People forget how important work is for socialization.
I choose work too. If you hate work, chances are you chose the wrong job. I’m glad FI has allowed you to craft a career that fits your wants and needs.
We need to continuously create these changes of pace throughout our lives. Work actually helps with that.
There are a lot of studies out there that show that early retirees are at more risk for health issues and depression and it relates to the themes you described. Definitely need something to retire to, not from to avoid that. And yes, traveling can only be done so much, have to fill up the rest of the days with something meaningful or you will slowly deteriorate mentally and physically
It’s funny that we all talk about all these wonderful things we are going to do when we FIRE yet health and deterioration occurs after RE. Definitely makes you think.
Boredom is lack of imagination. Work, Don t work whatever blows your skirt up. One is not more legit than the other if your pile is big enough. If your pile is dinky or your fear unmanaged you remain a slave. The reason travel peters out is lack of imagination. You think you’re living a jet set lifestyle but you discover it is shallow and never really bother to engage the culture or develop the referent to understand what you are experiencing. Watching TV is lack of imagination. There is plenty to do, but you have to engage. I do like sleeping in however A LOT
After getting up at 445 AM every morning, I’ve lost my ability to sleep in. I wonder if that will come back.
Yea it will and you will feel so much better. Takes 6 months to re normalize
I sorta FIed about 13 years ago. I only started working lately because the regulators said one had to work 2 months a year to keep the license active. So for at least 10 years I was pretty much retired. And I NEVER got bored. And when people say that around me, I say nothing. Mainly because if they already think that they will be bored then they actually will be.
Those years were freaking FANTASTIC. I have no problem either whatever people want to do. I only have the issue with doctors ditching the license too early since you kinda never know what will happen in life. Especially when you still have a young family in tow. I may be too careful but it’s what works for us.
Good advice about the license. Better to not let it lapse.
I agree that some work is good for your soul. Not working at all just doesn’t work. Human has the need to accomplish something. Traveling and having fun all the time is only good for so long. The right work is much more fulfilling than that. Good topic.
Definitely. And it doesn’t have to be for money. It can be completely mission based.
I agree that work is good for the soul. I believe we are all created with a purpose and feel alive when we are living it. Some of us are fortunate to be living our purpose in conjunction with our career. It sounds like you are one of those. Nicely done.
Dovetailing life purpose with a career is definitely a win. Otherwise you have to front load and get out.
These are the exact reasons why I choose to work as well. I don’t have any plans to RE. I might slow down in 15-20 years, but I need the feeling of usefulness and productiveness. A life of leisure would drive me nuts.
Me too. Downsizing is the way to go.
I love this – I am pursuing FI but am still incredibly passionate about what I do (nurse practitioner). For me, I want to be able to balance work and life/fun a bit differently, but I can’t imagine giving it up altogether yet. Also – as others have noted, in our profession there is a point of no turning back, where licenses and clinical skills have lapsed, and I’m not ready to commit to that yet (or anytime soon!).
Yes. it’s all about getting the right balance. 75% fun, 25% work.